Fleeting Thoughts
Now that Veronica is approaching 2 and Lorenzo is approaching 1, my life has really gotten easier. Both kids are very independent and will play for quite a while on their own. Oftentimes, I get to catch up on my reading of TIME, Food and Wine and Parents; while on my tummy in the playroom. Lorenzo is usually tearing all the books off the bookshelf and Veronica is pushing her baby stroller around in room asking for 'diff-rent song, diff-rent CD.' I can go grocery shopping with both kids if Veronica agrees to sit in the cart and Lorenzo in the baby spot. Usually, I will fill the cart up with essentials and we are off. Veronica will crawl into her car seat herself and I close the door on her side and secure Lorenzo in his seat before going back to her side and strapping her in. She is also a fan of 'sticking' her hands to the car as I get him out of his car seat. She then takes my hand only after I say 'okay'. (Don't try this in a traffic-ky area, I don't trust her that much.)
They both self-feed, they both sleep, they both love baths and they both love to help mom. Veronica takes her jacket and shoes off and puts them away, she puts clothes in the dryer, she cleans her own hand and face, brushes her hair and so much more. Lorenzo helps a lot by sleeping and being very agreeable almost all the time. Now that he understand the word 'no' he puts up a fuss if he is frustrated but that is his way of letting me know he has specific wants and desires. My role as a mom is satisfying as I hear Veronica's vocabulary grow each day and as she learns to do more and more things. Lorenzo is the cuddly one and allows he to hold him and hug him much more than Veronica does so the nurturer in me is also satisfied. What more could I ask for.













